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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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What would a girl think of eating her out before first sex?

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She is a virgin and I would just rather eat her out the first time, just bring her to orgasm with cunnilingus and then go in her without worrying about coming too soon (I'm on nofap and I will *** too early) 17yo
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hey it's not fapping if there is a girl in the room. Have her get you off somehow first, wait a few minutes, and then go again.

At your age, don't even worry about the girl orgasming. That's mostly a mental thing for women, and if she hasn't figured it out yet, there's nothing you're going to do to make it happen. So just don't worry about it.
 

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She is a virgin and I would just rather eat her out the first time, just bring her to orgasm with cunnilingus and then go in her without worrying about coming too soon (I'm on nofap and I will *** too early) 17yo
There are plenty who only do oral leading up to real first time sex. In my opinion I'd break the hymen and then eat her, since sex WILL not be pleasurable for her the first time. But you can make it good for her by eating her after the break thru.

Visually inspect that the hymen is there to make sure she's not lying to you. It looks like a flap of tissue covering the vaginal canal, either with a bunch of small holes (perforations) or a large hole that limits what can go thru it.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Visually inspect that the hymen is there to make sure she's not lying to you. It looks like a flap of tissue covering the vaginal canal, either with a bunch of small holes (perforations) or a large hole that limits what can go thru it.
Euhm, that is NOT what a hymen looks like.

The state of the hymen is also NOT a solid indicator on whether the chick is still a virgin or not.

Just sayin'.
 

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Euhm, that is NOT what a hymen looks like.

The state of the hymen is also NOT a solid indicator on whether the chick is still a virgin or not.

Just sayin'.
I've seen a couple. And they jived with what's in medical encyclopedia. They bled and all the tissue is not torn away until several conjugations. Like labia there are varieties of hymen!
 

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She would be too grossed out about her body odor for you to go down on her, the only way your going to get her off is finger bang her.
 

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I've seen a couple. And they jived with what's in medical encyclopedia. They bled and all the tissue is not torn away until several conjugations. Like labia there are varieties of hymen!
I've seen a ton because almost all women have them (its not like the hymen just disappears after sex). I've only seen 2 that were still in tact though and they did not match your description. One of them didn't bleed either.

A quick search on wikipedia reveals your initial info isn't entirely accurate.

I would not recommend the OP to go looking for the hymen to see of she's lying about her virginity.
 

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I've seen a ton because almost all women have them (its not like the hymen just disappears after sex). I've only seen 2 that were still in tact though and they did not match your description. One of them didn't bleed either.

A quick search on wikipedia reveals your initial info isn't entirely accurate.

I would not recommend the OP to go looking for the hymen to see of she's lying about her virginity.
The ones I've seen were intact. I was ages 16-19 then and those ladies hadn't even been penetrated with a tampon. Most ladies after I've never notice visible remnants of the hymen.
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The ones I've seen were intact. I was ages 16-19 then and those ladies hadn't even been penetrated with a tampon. Most ladies after I've never notice visible remnants of the hymen.
16-19 and never used a tampon?

Wtf did they use during their periods then?
 
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