"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what women DONT want

Ragnar

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1. Someone who is shy, considerate, NICE all the time.

2. A man who is always paying attention to her. (i. e.) NOT being a challange.

3. A man with no purpose in life.

4. A man with no ENERGY.

5. A man that has to always ask her "SO what do you want to do today?"

6. A negative man.

7. A man that is constantly worrying about life.

8. .....and finally A MAN THAT HAS NO white hot burning desire to CHANGE the world.

....or AS Steve Jobs put it (CEO of APPLE computer) and I quote

"I WANT TO PUT A DING IN THE UNIVERSE"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yup. I used to make mistakes 1,2 and 5 all the time. Thank god i learned from my mistakes but it cost me a few girls haha.
 

Mojo604

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I have made, or still do all those points on the list LOL.:cheer: :crackup:
 

white cloud 8

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I can pick out 1, 2 and 7 as my crimes :eek:. I've learned from the past.
 

Visceral

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3, 4, 6, 7, and 8 for me.

Damn, I got all the hard-to-fix ones :mad:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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<doesnt want a man who completely agrees with everything she says
i mean come on, use your brain, speak your mind
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
<doesnt want a man who completely agrees with everything she says
i mean come on, use your brain, speak your mind
I disagree completely.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
how so?
I don't know but I bet you want me now.
 

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im glad im learning now (while im still young) from all these mistakes listed because who knows how i would turn out 5 yrs from now... it is sad to see so many people my age who have no clue who they are... these are the times to find oneself before anything else
 

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I'm tired of these, women -like-this-threads. They will respond differently depending on who they are. Ohh, hear and gasp, some women might actually like a guy that do a couple of these things.
 
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