"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what women DONT want

Ragnar

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1. Someone who is shy, considerate, NICE all the time.

2. A man who is always paying attention to her. (i. e.) NOT being a challange.

3. A man with no purpose in life.

4. A man with no ENERGY.

5. A man that has to always ask her "SO what do you want to do today?"

6. A negative man.

7. A man that is constantly worrying about life.

8. .....and finally A MAN THAT HAS NO white hot burning desire to CHANGE the world.

....or AS Steve Jobs put it (CEO of APPLE computer) and I quote

"I WANT TO PUT A DING IN THE UNIVERSE"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ghostin

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Yup. I used to make mistakes 1,2 and 5 all the time. Thank god i learned from my mistakes but it cost me a few girls haha.
 

Mojo604

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I have made, or still do all those points on the list LOL.:cheer: :crackup:
 

white cloud 8

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I can pick out 1, 2 and 7 as my crimes :eek:. I've learned from the past.
 

Visceral

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3, 4, 6, 7, and 8 for me.

Damn, I got all the hard-to-fix ones :mad:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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<doesnt want a man who completely agrees with everything she says
i mean come on, use your brain, speak your mind
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
<doesnt want a man who completely agrees with everything she says
i mean come on, use your brain, speak your mind
I disagree completely.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
how so?
I don't know but I bet you want me now.
 

upcomingDJ

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im glad im learning now (while im still young) from all these mistakes listed because who knows how i would turn out 5 yrs from now... it is sad to see so many people my age who have no clue who they are... these are the times to find oneself before anything else
 

Lifeforce

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I'm tired of these, women -like-this-threads. They will respond differently depending on who they are. Ohh, hear and gasp, some women might actually like a guy that do a couple of these things.
 
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