"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what women DONT want

Ragnar

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1. Someone who is shy, considerate, NICE all the time.

2. A man who is always paying attention to her. (i. e.) NOT being a challange.

3. A man with no purpose in life.

4. A man with no ENERGY.

5. A man that has to always ask her "SO what do you want to do today?"

6. A negative man.

7. A man that is constantly worrying about life.

8. .....and finally A MAN THAT HAS NO white hot burning desire to CHANGE the world.

....or AS Steve Jobs put it (CEO of APPLE computer) and I quote

"I WANT TO PUT A DING IN THE UNIVERSE"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ghostin

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Yup. I used to make mistakes 1,2 and 5 all the time. Thank god i learned from my mistakes but it cost me a few girls haha.
 

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I have made, or still do all those points on the list LOL.:cheer: :crackup:
 

white cloud 8

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I can pick out 1, 2 and 7 as my crimes :eek:. I've learned from the past.
 

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3, 4, 6, 7, and 8 for me.

Damn, I got all the hard-to-fix ones :mad:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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<doesnt want a man who completely agrees with everything she says
i mean come on, use your brain, speak your mind
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
<doesnt want a man who completely agrees with everything she says
i mean come on, use your brain, speak your mind
I disagree completely.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
how so?
I don't know but I bet you want me now.
 

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im glad im learning now (while im still young) from all these mistakes listed because who knows how i would turn out 5 yrs from now... it is sad to see so many people my age who have no clue who they are... these are the times to find oneself before anything else
 

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I'm tired of these, women -like-this-threads. They will respond differently depending on who they are. Ohh, hear and gasp, some women might actually like a guy that do a couple of these things.
 
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