"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what women DONT want

Ragnar

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1. Someone who is shy, considerate, NICE all the time.

2. A man who is always paying attention to her. (i. e.) NOT being a challange.

3. A man with no purpose in life.

4. A man with no ENERGY.

5. A man that has to always ask her "SO what do you want to do today?"

6. A negative man.

7. A man that is constantly worrying about life.

8. .....and finally A MAN THAT HAS NO white hot burning desire to CHANGE the world.

....or AS Steve Jobs put it (CEO of APPLE computer) and I quote

"I WANT TO PUT A DING IN THE UNIVERSE"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ghostin

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Yup. I used to make mistakes 1,2 and 5 all the time. Thank god i learned from my mistakes but it cost me a few girls haha.
 

Mojo604

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I have made, or still do all those points on the list LOL.:cheer: :crackup:
 

white cloud 8

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I can pick out 1, 2 and 7 as my crimes :eek:. I've learned from the past.
 

Visceral

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3, 4, 6, 7, and 8 for me.

Damn, I got all the hard-to-fix ones :mad:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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<doesnt want a man who completely agrees with everything she says
i mean come on, use your brain, speak your mind
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
<doesnt want a man who completely agrees with everything she says
i mean come on, use your brain, speak your mind
I disagree completely.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
how so?
I don't know but I bet you want me now.
 

upcomingDJ

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im glad im learning now (while im still young) from all these mistakes listed because who knows how i would turn out 5 yrs from now... it is sad to see so many people my age who have no clue who they are... these are the times to find oneself before anything else
 

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I'm tired of these, women -like-this-threads. They will respond differently depending on who they are. Ohh, hear and gasp, some women might actually like a guy that do a couple of these things.
 
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