"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What women are really saying

bob2007

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I'm not ready for a relationship. I don't want a relationship with you.
Can I get a rain check? What am I a wal mart? She 'll call you when she's bored.
Breakup. "I'm sure you'll find someone." (I really believe this one meant, I already found someone).
**** off. What does this one mean? I thought means the opposite. You better make up with me. (I msged her the day after and it was all lovey dovey.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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btownbuck2012

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Lmao. You talk about women like they’re some dictator that you’re trying to keep pleased.

Especially that one “you’d better keep giving me good sex”

Lol. Here’s one for women to look at:

When I say “if you do that again this is over permanently” theres no hidden meaning. It means you will not see me again if you don’t lose the attitude.

Here’s one that does have a hidden meaning:
“I’m not perfect. There’s plenty of other guys in this city who I’m sure would be happy to date you if you think you’d be happier with someone else.”

Translation. Stay or go. I could care less. I’ll have already forgotten you by the time you’ve got another d!ck inside you. Matter of fact I’d rather go to the genesis open this weekend at riviera than worry about whether or not you’re happy or not.

It goes both ways. These lists of what women really mean are horsesh!t. Develop yourself, work on an abundance mentality and DARE her to walk. It’s the only way. Stop putting them on a god damned pedestal.
 
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Lmao. You talk about women like they’re some dictator that you’re trying to keep pleased.

Especially that one “you’d better keep giving me good sex”

Lol. Here’s one for women to look at:

When I say “if you do that again this is over permanently” theres no hidden meaning. It means you will not see me again if you don’t lose the attitude.

Here’s one that does have a hidden meaning:
“I’m not perfect. There’s plenty of other guys in this city who I’m sure would be happy to date you if you think you’d be happier with someone else.”

Translation. Stay or go. I could care less. I’ll have already forgotten you by the time you’ve got another d!ck inside you. Matter of fact I’d rather go to the genesis open this weekend at riviera than worry about whether or not you’re happy or not.

It goes both ways. These lists of what women really mean are horsesh!t. Develop yourself, work on an abundance mentality and DARE her to walk. It’s the only way. Stop putting them on a god damned pedestal.
I was browsing on my phone not signed in. But I had to sign in just to give this post a like. Absolutely outstanding. I have had to use the “Do that again and we are done “ direct like 4 times in the past month with my GF. She got mad each time but you know what? She hasn’t repeated the things she did. The last time she said I was being controlling. I said “I don’t mean to be I just have boundaries. No hard feelings if you want to go find a guy with fewer boundaries than me or none at all.” This is harsh but it has to be done.
 
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