"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What women are really saying

bob2007

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I'm not ready for a relationship. I don't want a relationship with you.
Can I get a rain check? What am I a wal mart? She 'll call you when she's bored.
Breakup. "I'm sure you'll find someone." (I really believe this one meant, I already found someone).
**** off. What does this one mean? I thought means the opposite. You better make up with me. (I msged her the day after and it was all lovey dovey.)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

btownbuck2012

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Lmao. You talk about women like they’re some dictator that you’re trying to keep pleased.

Especially that one “you’d better keep giving me good sex”

Lol. Here’s one for women to look at:

When I say “if you do that again this is over permanently” theres no hidden meaning. It means you will not see me again if you don’t lose the attitude.

Here’s one that does have a hidden meaning:
“I’m not perfect. There’s plenty of other guys in this city who I’m sure would be happy to date you if you think you’d be happier with someone else.”

Translation. Stay or go. I could care less. I’ll have already forgotten you by the time you’ve got another d!ck inside you. Matter of fact I’d rather go to the genesis open this weekend at riviera than worry about whether or not you’re happy or not.

It goes both ways. These lists of what women really mean are horsesh!t. Develop yourself, work on an abundance mentality and DARE her to walk. It’s the only way. Stop putting them on a god damned pedestal.
 
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Lmao. You talk about women like they’re some dictator that you’re trying to keep pleased.

Especially that one “you’d better keep giving me good sex”

Lol. Here’s one for women to look at:

When I say “if you do that again this is over permanently” theres no hidden meaning. It means you will not see me again if you don’t lose the attitude.

Here’s one that does have a hidden meaning:
“I’m not perfect. There’s plenty of other guys in this city who I’m sure would be happy to date you if you think you’d be happier with someone else.”

Translation. Stay or go. I could care less. I’ll have already forgotten you by the time you’ve got another d!ck inside you. Matter of fact I’d rather go to the genesis open this weekend at riviera than worry about whether or not you’re happy or not.

It goes both ways. These lists of what women really mean are horsesh!t. Develop yourself, work on an abundance mentality and DARE her to walk. It’s the only way. Stop putting them on a god damned pedestal.
I was browsing on my phone not signed in. But I had to sign in just to give this post a like. Absolutely outstanding. I have had to use the “Do that again and we are done “ direct like 4 times in the past month with my GF. She got mad each time but you know what? She hasn’t repeated the things she did. The last time she said I was being controlling. I said “I don’t mean to be I just have boundaries. No hard feelings if you want to go find a guy with fewer boundaries than me or none at all.” This is harsh but it has to be done.
 
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