"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What will happen if you get a nice body (6pack etc) and then STOP work-outs?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
well yes but i dont think they turn to fat, they just disapear, if you look at anyone who borke there leg after having a cast taken off there leg, their leg will be really really skinny if they are thin because the muslce has gone.
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Once you take that physical work away, they start breaking down. Once you stop slacking off on your diet, they start breaking down.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
It turns to flab though. I never said fat. Flab = if you have enough muscle.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Correct. Without the physical stress, your muscles will simply decrease in size, but they won't turn into fat. If you stop lifting, but still have a healthy diet, you won't get fat, but you will lose lean muscle. If your diet is bad, then you will gain fat while losing lean muscle at the same time.Originally posted by FrankWank
SORRY..........but muscle does NOT turn to fat or flab!
A muscle will only increase or decrease in size. It does not turn into something else
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Spare me the biology. The consequences are what's important.
When you get big, it's fairly easy to maintain. But if you stop training and eat the same, you will turn into a tub of lard.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.