"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What was your single best improvement point that increased your success with women?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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I’m very curious, if you were to pick your single most important improvement point that made you more successful with women, which one would it be?
I've always said that it was no single thing, but rather a culmination of all my efforts to self improve in a number of different areas that paid off for me.
But if I had to pick one thing, it was the fact that I worked so hard to be more social, and improve my social skills. That was a severe deficit for me when I started though, so it was something I had to fix.
 

Ryan Adams

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Choosing women who would be most likely into me.

In my 20’s I approached the wrong kind of women. Every guy has a niche. You have to find that niche
this is exactly it. I tried for years to be something I wasn't. if you can't genuinely exude confidence in who you are people can pick up on that. I finally just started doing what I wanted to do and didn't follow the crowd with the way I dress etc... now I literally have multiple woman begging to hang out with me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chev.Chelios

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figuring out finaly that marriage, this whole idea of exclusivity, religion, schooling, mainstream media is a clever well thought out design to mentaly fvck everybody into a sterile state of severe sexual shame.

basicley fvck off everything society has taught you and you will be good.
 

MrWood

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being bold and provocative
 
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