"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What was your single best improvement point that increased your success with women?

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I’m very curious, if you were to pick your single most important improvement point that made you more successful with women, which one would it be?

Let’s see if we can get an interesting discussion going with some good examples.

Regards,
/European
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Greater social skills and increased knowledge about women has done it for me. All of the other things related to looks(clothes, physique) and money helped but not like improving social skills and knowledge about women. Its probably a 70/30 split.
 
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The main improvement that will get me a lot of girls is being able to spot IOIs mid conversation, usually i don't realize which approaches are going really really well until after the fact when i think back on it. So there's lots of girls i don't bother getting the number for because they seem clearly uninterested...

...until i think about it later and realize something they said is a really strong IOI i didn't notice when i had no time to think
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I did read a lot and realized women are shallow and will always branch swing for someone with bigger LMS, so theres nothing to worry about, as we will be all cheated on in the end. You also can have sex with unattractive women risk free

guru1000 said:
My abs have abs.
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Pic or i call bs lol
 
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European-DJ said:
I’m very curious, if you were to pick your single most important improvement point that made you more successful with women, which one would it be?

Let’s see if we can get an interesting discussion going with some good examples.

Regards,
/European
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Emotional intelligence. Improved every area of my life significantly.

guru1000 said:
http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_2035 Croppedbbbbb_zpsfajbgg8o.jpg.html?sort=3&o=15

Enjoy ;)
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Thanks for making me regret the chocolate ice cream I just ate,

Off to do cardio now to keep up with Guru.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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guru1000 said:
At 160 lbs soak and wet, good job.

Come back at me at 200+ lbs.
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My weight fluctuates quite a bit depending on where I want to be. I haven't been 160 since I was 16 I think though. I'm probably closer to 175. Not huge, but at 6% bf, it still is something to brag about :D :D :D
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
My weight fluctuates quite a bit depending on where I want to be. I haven't been 160 since I was 16 I think though. I'm probably closer to 175. Not huge, but at 6% bf, it still is something to brag about :D :D :D
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6% is quite a claim. Burden of proof falls upon you.
 
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Not giving a **** and always escalate to sex if you can on a first date. You might never see her again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skinnyguy said:
Choosing women who would be most likely into me.

In my 20’s I approached the wrong kind of women. Every guy has a niche. You have to find that niche
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But what if your natural "niche" is limited to fat chicks?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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