RichardTheFrog
Banned
If I start working out 5 days/week right now, How long does it take to look like that?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What was your single best improvement point that increased your success with women?
- Thread starter European-DJ
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
zekko
Master Don Juan
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I've always said that it was no single thing, but rather a culmination of all my efforts to self improve in a number of different areas that paid off for me.
But if I had to pick one thing, it was the fact that I worked so hard to be more social, and improve my social skills. That was a severe deficit for me when I started though, so it was something I had to fix.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
How are those Big Mac's coming?
Ryan Adams
Master Don Juan
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this is exactly it. I tried for years to be something I wasn't. if you can't genuinely exude confidence in who you are people can pick up on that. I finally just started doing what I wanted to do and didn't follow the crowd with the way I dress etc... now I literally have multiple woman begging to hang out with me
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
figuring out finaly that marriage, this whole idea of exclusivity, religion, schooling, mainstream media is a clever well thought out design to mentaly fvck everybody into a sterile state of severe sexual shame.
basicley fvck off everything society has taught you and you will be good.
basicley fvck off everything society has taught you and you will be good.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
being bold and provocative
you can eat them during bulking if you want
This one fat chick is incredibly into me. If I liked fat chicks, I would date her without regard to what people thought