"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

What was your single best improvement point that increased your success with women?

European-DJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2010
Messages
704
Reaction score
165
Location
Europe
Fellow DJs

I’m very curious, if you were to pick your single most important improvement point that made you more successful with women, which one would it be?

Let’s see if we can get an interesting discussion going with some good examples.

Regards,
/European
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,533
Reaction score
11,480
Greater social skills and increased knowledge about women has done it for me. All of the other things related to looks(clothes, physique) and money helped but not like improving social skills and knowledge about women. Its probably a 70/30 split.
 

devilkingx2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2013
Messages
4,521
Reaction score
2,229
Location
NYC
The main improvement that will get me a lot of girls is being able to spot IOIs mid conversation, usually i don't realize which approaches are going really really well until after the fact when i think back on it. So there's lots of girls i don't bother getting the number for because they seem clearly uninterested...

...until i think about it later and realize something they said is a really strong IOI i didn't notice when i had no time to think
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
I did read a lot and realized women are shallow and will always branch swing for someone with bigger LMS, so theres nothing to worry about, as we will be all cheated on in the end. You also can have sex with unattractive women risk free

My abs have abs.
Pic or i call bs lol
 

TheProspect

Moderator
Joined
Feb 5, 2016
Messages
886
Reaction score
1,826
I’m very curious, if you were to pick your single most important improvement point that made you more successful with women, which one would it be?

Let’s see if we can get an interesting discussion going with some good examples.

Regards,
/European
Emotional intelligence. Improved every area of my life significantly.

Thanks for making me regret the chocolate ice cream I just ate,

Off to do cardio now to keep up with Guru.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2014
Messages
5,747
Reaction score
2,964
Age
27
Location
Right behind you
At 160 lbs soak and wet, good job.

Come back at me at 200+ lbs.
My weight fluctuates quite a bit depending on where I want to be. I haven't been 160 since I was 16 I think though. I'm probably closer to 175. Not huge, but at 6% bf, it still is something to brag about :D :D :D
 

guru1000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2007
Messages
5,299
Reaction score
4,338
My weight fluctuates quite a bit depending on where I want to be. I haven't been 160 since I was 16 I think though. I'm probably closer to 175. Not huge, but at 6% bf, it still is something to brag about :D :D :D
6% is quite a claim. Burden of proof falls upon you.
 

Mazer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2017
Messages
801
Reaction score
890
Age
48
Not giving a **** and always escalate to sex if you can on a first date. You might never see her again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,718
Reaction score
5,142
Choosing women who would be most likely into me.

In my 20’s I approached the wrong kind of women. Every guy has a niche. You have to find that niche
But what if your natural "niche" is limited to fat chicks?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top