"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What was your First Exposure of anything PUA ?

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What was your First Exposure of anything PUA ? Any media (Tv, book, website, whatever)

I remember seeing Ross Jeffries on the Phil Donahue show when i was very young. Boy he copped a lot of abuse from the audience.

And it must have been a long time ago because i just checked out a recent video of Ross and boy he is looking old now !
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think I first saw the TV show with Mystery on VH1 but I wasn't aware of places like SS until the middle of last year. I'm pretty sure I found this place by googling something about wanting an ex back lol.
 
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Rex's First Exposure to the Pickup Community

Was the great and classic documentary, American Pimp, something that was specifically associated with the Seduction Community specifically, it was this website.
 
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99-00 area. Back of a "Men's Health" Magazine. One of David Deangelo's old ads about how to get women (aka: be ****y and funny). Was my first experience with any seduction material. Was expecting a book about lightning candles and talking like Romeo to a woman (afterall; that's what i believed seduction was).

When i read it - lots of my failures made sense.

Found this site soon after...
 
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I was doing some Christmas shopping and ended up in a Barnes and Noble....just browsing. Then low and behold there's this black book that looked like a Bible, titled "The Game". My first thought: "is this what I think it is?" It came at a perfect time, because my game was at an all time low, I had over corrected to the extreme blue pill side. That book opened the door, but, more importantly, made it aware, by Neil Strauss's 180 he pulled, that game can be learned.

I never really applied any of Mystery's techniques, other than basic principles, like the neg, but I did end up ordering a bunch of David D's stuff. The ****y funny, was the closest thing to my natural personality. And it worked wonders there for a while.

Surprisingly enough, I had never thought of finding a website like this online. SMH.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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