"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What was your First Exposure of anything PUA ?

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What was your First Exposure of anything PUA ? Any media (Tv, book, website, whatever)

I remember seeing Ross Jeffries on the Phil Donahue show when i was very young. Boy he copped a lot of abuse from the audience.

And it must have been a long time ago because i just checked out a recent video of Ross and boy he is looking old now !
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think I first saw the TV show with Mystery on VH1 but I wasn't aware of places like SS until the middle of last year. I'm pretty sure I found this place by googling something about wanting an ex back lol.
 
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Rex's First Exposure to the Pickup Community

Was the great and classic documentary, American Pimp, something that was specifically associated with the Seduction Community specifically, it was this website.
 
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99-00 area. Back of a "Men's Health" Magazine. One of David Deangelo's old ads about how to get women (aka: be ****y and funny). Was my first experience with any seduction material. Was expecting a book about lightning candles and talking like Romeo to a woman (afterall; that's what i believed seduction was).

When i read it - lots of my failures made sense.

Found this site soon after...
 
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I was doing some Christmas shopping and ended up in a Barnes and Noble....just browsing. Then low and behold there's this black book that looked like a Bible, titled "The Game". My first thought: "is this what I think it is?" It came at a perfect time, because my game was at an all time low, I had over corrected to the extreme blue pill side. That book opened the door, but, more importantly, made it aware, by Neil Strauss's 180 he pulled, that game can be learned.

I never really applied any of Mystery's techniques, other than basic principles, like the neg, but I did end up ordering a bunch of David D's stuff. The ****y funny, was the closest thing to my natural personality. And it worked wonders there for a while.

Surprisingly enough, I had never thought of finding a website like this online. SMH.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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