"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What was your First Exposure of anything PUA ?

Peterpack

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What was your First Exposure of anything PUA ? Any media (Tv, book, website, whatever)

I remember seeing Ross Jeffries on the Phil Donahue show when i was very young. Boy he copped a lot of abuse from the audience.

And it must have been a long time ago because i just checked out a recent video of Ross and boy he is looking old now !
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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apprenticedj

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I think I first saw the TV show with Mystery on VH1 but I wasn't aware of places like SS until the middle of last year. I'm pretty sure I found this place by googling something about wanting an ex back lol.
 

Maximus Rex

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Rex's First Exposure to the Pickup Community

Was the great and classic documentary, American Pimp, something that was specifically associated with the Seduction Community specifically, it was this website.
 

bukowski_merit

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99-00 area. Back of a "Men's Health" Magazine. One of David Deangelo's old ads about how to get women (aka: be ****y and funny). Was my first experience with any seduction material. Was expecting a book about lightning candles and talking like Romeo to a woman (afterall; that's what i believed seduction was).

When i read it - lots of my failures made sense.

Found this site soon after...
 

Peaks&Valleys

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I was doing some Christmas shopping and ended up in a Barnes and Noble....just browsing. Then low and behold there's this black book that looked like a Bible, titled "The Game". My first thought: "is this what I think it is?" It came at a perfect time, because my game was at an all time low, I had over corrected to the extreme blue pill side. That book opened the door, but, more importantly, made it aware, by Neil Strauss's 180 he pulled, that game can be learned.

I never really applied any of Mystery's techniques, other than basic principles, like the neg, but I did end up ordering a bunch of David D's stuff. The ****y funny, was the closest thing to my natural personality. And it worked wonders there for a while.

Surprisingly enough, I had never thought of finding a website like this online. SMH.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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