"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok... Im new in this message board...and I've been receiving the DJ letters for almost two moths.

At this moment I haven't tried any of the Dj tips because I'm trying to understand "the game" first.

When it came to conversation topics I know which ones to avoid (I got the letter with that subject - Avoid sad topics, computer stuff, past relationships, etc) but I need some advice in which topics should I bring up.

I mean... when that long silence comes in the middle of the date, I have to work really hard to keep the conversation going...

I want it (the conversation) to be soft, calm and "easy"... what should I do... and which topics must I use?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Just ask open ended questions...
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Like....? ...........I need examples of that... and posible reactions.....
 
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How was your week?
What do you have planned for the rest of the week?
Anything exciting happen to you this week?

After those 3 questions you should have enough to carry on a 2 week conversation.

She'll respond with stuff she is doing....
picking up a book (she likes to read)
have a party with friends (like to party)
etc..

Just listen to what she says and then keep asking open ended questions based on what she is doing this week. And of course throw in the usual like neg-hits and jokes and kino as you go...

"I'm picking up a new best seller this week"
What kind of books do you like to read?
"Mostly science-fiction"
Like the nerdy Star trek stuff? (neg-hit)
"No silly, I. Asmonoff stuff"
How did you get on that author?
"Oh, when I was in school I had a friend and I just borrowed the book and loved it!"
I thought women only just did pillow fights in school?
"Well we had our share of fun too!"

crap like that.... just go with it based on what she tells you is doing for the rest of the week or next week - she'll tell you... pretty simple.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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