"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok... Im new in this message board...and I've been receiving the DJ letters for almost two moths.

At this moment I haven't tried any of the Dj tips because I'm trying to understand "the game" first.

When it came to conversation topics I know which ones to avoid (I got the letter with that subject - Avoid sad topics, computer stuff, past relationships, etc) but I need some advice in which topics should I bring up.

I mean... when that long silence comes in the middle of the date, I have to work really hard to keep the conversation going...

I want it (the conversation) to be soft, calm and "easy"... what should I do... and which topics must I use?

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Just ask open ended questions...


Like....? ...........I need examples of that... and posible reactions.....
 

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How was your week?
What do you have planned for the rest of the week?
Anything exciting happen to you this week?

After those 3 questions you should have enough to carry on a 2 week conversation.

She'll respond with stuff she is doing....
picking up a book (she likes to read)
have a party with friends (like to party)
etc..

Just listen to what she says and then keep asking open ended questions based on what she is doing this week. And of course throw in the usual like neg-hits and jokes and kino as you go...

"I'm picking up a new best seller this week"
What kind of books do you like to read?
"Mostly science-fiction"
Like the nerdy Star trek stuff? (neg-hit)
"No silly, I. Asmonoff stuff"
How did you get on that author?
"Oh, when I was in school I had a friend and I just borrowed the book and loved it!"
I thought women only just did pillow fights in school?
"Well we had our share of fun too!"

crap like that.... just go with it based on what she tells you is doing for the rest of the week or next week - she'll tell you... pretty simple.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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