Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ok... Im new in this message board...and I've been receiving the DJ letters for almost two moths.

At this moment I haven't tried any of the Dj tips because I'm trying to understand "the game" first.

When it came to conversation topics I know which ones to avoid (I got the letter with that subject - Avoid sad topics, computer stuff, past relationships, etc) but I need some advice in which topics should I bring up.

I mean... when that long silence comes in the middle of the date, I have to work really hard to keep the conversation going...

I want it (the conversation) to be soft, calm and "easy"... what should I do... and which topics must I use?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Just ask open ended questions...
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Like....? ...........I need examples of that... and posible reactions.....
 
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How was your week?
What do you have planned for the rest of the week?
Anything exciting happen to you this week?

After those 3 questions you should have enough to carry on a 2 week conversation.

She'll respond with stuff she is doing....
picking up a book (she likes to read)
have a party with friends (like to party)
etc..

Just listen to what she says and then keep asking open ended questions based on what she is doing this week. And of course throw in the usual like neg-hits and jokes and kino as you go...

"I'm picking up a new best seller this week"
What kind of books do you like to read?
"Mostly science-fiction"
Like the nerdy Star trek stuff? (neg-hit)
"No silly, I. Asmonoff stuff"
How did you get on that author?
"Oh, when I was in school I had a friend and I just borrowed the book and loved it!"
I thought women only just did pillow fights in school?
"Well we had our share of fun too!"

crap like that.... just go with it based on what she tells you is doing for the rest of the week or next week - she'll tell you... pretty simple.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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