"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok... Im new in this message board...and I've been receiving the DJ letters for almost two moths.

At this moment I haven't tried any of the Dj tips because I'm trying to understand "the game" first.

When it came to conversation topics I know which ones to avoid (I got the letter with that subject - Avoid sad topics, computer stuff, past relationships, etc) but I need some advice in which topics should I bring up.

I mean... when that long silence comes in the middle of the date, I have to work really hard to keep the conversation going...

I want it (the conversation) to be soft, calm and "easy"... what should I do... and which topics must I use?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Just ask open ended questions...
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Like....? ...........I need examples of that... and posible reactions.....
 
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How was your week?
What do you have planned for the rest of the week?
Anything exciting happen to you this week?

After those 3 questions you should have enough to carry on a 2 week conversation.

She'll respond with stuff she is doing....
picking up a book (she likes to read)
have a party with friends (like to party)
etc..

Just listen to what she says and then keep asking open ended questions based on what she is doing this week. And of course throw in the usual like neg-hits and jokes and kino as you go...

"I'm picking up a new best seller this week"
What kind of books do you like to read?
"Mostly science-fiction"
Like the nerdy Star trek stuff? (neg-hit)
"No silly, I. Asmonoff stuff"
How did you get on that author?
"Oh, when I was in school I had a friend and I just borrowed the book and loved it!"
I thought women only just did pillow fights in school?
"Well we had our share of fun too!"

crap like that.... just go with it based on what she tells you is doing for the rest of the week or next week - she'll tell you... pretty simple.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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