Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ok... Im new in this message board...and I've been receiving the DJ letters for almost two moths.

At this moment I haven't tried any of the Dj tips because I'm trying to understand "the game" first.

When it came to conversation topics I know which ones to avoid (I got the letter with that subject - Avoid sad topics, computer stuff, past relationships, etc) but I need some advice in which topics should I bring up.

I mean... when that long silence comes in the middle of the date, I have to work really hard to keep the conversation going...

I want it (the conversation) to be soft, calm and "easy"... what should I do... and which topics must I use?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Just ask open ended questions...
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Like....? ...........I need examples of that... and posible reactions.....
 
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How was your week?
What do you have planned for the rest of the week?
Anything exciting happen to you this week?

After those 3 questions you should have enough to carry on a 2 week conversation.

She'll respond with stuff she is doing....
picking up a book (she likes to read)
have a party with friends (like to party)
etc..

Just listen to what she says and then keep asking open ended questions based on what she is doing this week. And of course throw in the usual like neg-hits and jokes and kino as you go...

"I'm picking up a new best seller this week"
What kind of books do you like to read?
"Mostly science-fiction"
Like the nerdy Star trek stuff? (neg-hit)
"No silly, I. Asmonoff stuff"
How did you get on that author?
"Oh, when I was in school I had a friend and I just borrowed the book and loved it!"
I thought women only just did pillow fights in school?
"Well we had our share of fun too!"

crap like that.... just go with it based on what she tells you is doing for the rest of the week or next week - she'll tell you... pretty simple.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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