Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I was asked by 1 girl I'm dating 'so what do you think of me?'.
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What to say when she says 'so what do you think of me?'
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Panda 2000
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"I think you should buy me another drink"
ONE way to do it...
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Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math"
^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much ... Works for me... try it.
Laterz...
Your answer: "The question is... what DONT i think of you
" Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math
" ^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much
... Works for me... try it. Laterz...
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
"You meet my minimal standards"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ShortTimer
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"I don't think of you at all."
AFC guya ask this very question all the time and girls usually find it strange. I don't know how many dating shows I've seen where the guy ends up asking her what she thinks of him. What a joke.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
biker_gixxer
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'I don't know yet, I'm still evaluating. I'll let you know...'
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.