Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I was asked by 1 girl I'm dating 'so what do you think of me?'.
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What to say when she says 'so what do you think of me?'
- Thread starter Guitar_Whizz
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Panda 2000
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"I think you should buy me another drink"
ONE way to do it...
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Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math"
^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much ... Works for me... try it.
Laterz...
Your answer: "The question is... what DONT i think of you
" Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math
" ^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much
... Works for me... try it. Laterz...
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
"You meet my minimal standards"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ShortTimer
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"I don't think of you at all."
AFC guya ask this very question all the time and girls usually find it strange. I don't know how many dating shows I've seen where the guy ends up asking her what she thinks of him. What a joke.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
biker_gixxer
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'I don't know yet, I'm still evaluating. I'll let you know...'
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.