Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I was asked by 1 girl I'm dating 'so what do you think of me?'.
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What to say when she says 'so what do you think of me?'
- Thread starter Guitar_Whizz
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Panda 2000
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"I think you should buy me another drink"
ONE way to do it...
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Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math"
^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much ... Works for me... try it.
Laterz...
Your answer: "The question is... what DONT i think of you
" Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math
" ^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much
... Works for me... try it. Laterz...
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
"You meet my minimal standards"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ShortTimer
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"I don't think of you at all."
AFC guya ask this very question all the time and girls usually find it strange. I don't know how many dating shows I've seen where the guy ends up asking her what she thinks of him. What a joke.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
biker_gixxer
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'I don't know yet, I'm still evaluating. I'll let you know...'
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.