Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I was asked by 1 girl I'm dating 'so what do you think of me?'.
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What to say when she says 'so what do you think of me?'
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Panda 2000
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"I think you should buy me another drink"
ONE way to do it...
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Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math"
^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much ... Works for me... try it.
Laterz...
Your answer: "The question is... what DONT i think of you
" Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math
" ^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much
... Works for me... try it. Laterz...
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
"You meet my minimal standards"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ShortTimer
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"I don't think of you at all."
AFC guya ask this very question all the time and girls usually find it strange. I don't know how many dating shows I've seen where the guy ends up asking her what she thinks of him. What a joke.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
biker_gixxer
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'I don't know yet, I'm still evaluating. I'll let you know...'
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.