Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I was asked by 1 girl I'm dating 'so what do you think of me?'.
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
What'd be a DJ way to answer to this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What to say when she says 'so what do you think of me?'
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Panda 2000
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"I think you should buy me another drink"
ONE way to do it...
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Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math"
^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much ... Works for me... try it.
Laterz...
Your answer: "The question is... what DONT i think of you
" Then when she sais something along the lines of "no man, come on, please just tell me"
You say: "Well.... Would i be dating you if i neva WANTED to? ... Do the math
" ^--- I did this a few times... It brings a joking/funny/unarkward vibe, AND you get your message across without flattering her too much
... Works for me... try it. Laterz...
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
"You meet my minimal standards"
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ShortTimer
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"I don't think of you at all."
AFC guya ask this very question all the time and girls usually find it strange. I don't know how many dating shows I've seen where the guy ends up asking her what she thinks of him. What a joke.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
If a girl does this it is rare and it is a sign that she likes you. I wouldn't worry about it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
biker_gixxer
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'I don't know yet, I'm still evaluating. I'll let you know...'
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
You want to answer her question, but not totally. Leave it 'unanswered'. Girls love Anticipation....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.