I was with a girl today and she mentioned something about being fat, your typical qualify comment. I didnt do the usual AFC 'your not fat!' like I would have, just more went on about what we were talking about and pretended not to hear it. What would be a good way to handle this when she sais she is fat or any other coment when she is fishing for complments? thanks..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
what to say when she is looking for complments
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
If she is beautiful, agree with her on her flaw, and exaggerate it in a playful manner. I have a friend who is a model from Singapore who whines about her weight even though she is perfectly trim. When she does this I call her a giant whale and say I'm surprised she can fit through the doorway. She loves it.
If she is the insecure type, don't say anything, and never rush to her defense.
If she is the insecure type, don't say anything, and never rush to her defense.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
LOL, this remind me of this episode of Dr Phil (yes, I watch it).
This couple are lying in bed together, gazing into each others eyes. The wife is expecting him to come out & say something spectacular...
" God you're ugly "
:crackup:
This couple are lying in bed together, gazing into each others eyes. The wife is expecting him to come out & say something spectacular...
" God you're ugly "
:crackup:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Actually I think the way you handled it was the best way. I hate when girls say this sh*t & I ignore it. I fidn that if you try to find answer to it you find yourself stumped as to what to say.Shocker said:I was with a girl today and she mentioned something about being fat, your typical qualify comment. I didnt do the usual AFC 'your not fat!' like I would have, just more went on about what we were talking about and pretended not to hear it. What would be a good way to handle this when she sais she is fat or any other coment when she is fishing for complments? thanks..
insanity
Master Don Juan
i remember going to the beach with a few girls and there was this one girl in a bikini and she looked amazing. whats the first thing she said? do i look fat in this.
i told her yes, now go swim with the rest of the whales. she just called me a prick. i told her to not be so stupid, i said it looks like a new suit, you were just fishing for comments. like what else did she want me to do, get on my knees and drool.
i told her yes, now go swim with the rest of the whales. she just called me a prick. i told her to not be so stupid, i said it looks like a new suit, you were just fishing for comments. like what else did she want me to do, get on my knees and drool.
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
Just smile and say "No, don't worry!"
But if a girl really is fat, and would know if you were lying about it, you use a sober tone and say "It's not everything, and seriously, you don't have anything to worry about when it comes to charisma."
The word charisma is an excellent compliment to use when a girl doesn't look good, but is still nice and intelligent.
But if a girl really is fat, and would know if you were lying about it, you use a sober tone and say "It's not everything, and seriously, you don't have anything to worry about when it comes to charisma."
The word charisma is an excellent compliment to use when a girl doesn't look good, but is still nice and intelligent.