I was with a girl today and she mentioned something about being fat, your typical qualify comment. I didnt do the usual AFC 'your not fat!' like I would have, just more went on about what we were talking about and pretended not to hear it. What would be a good way to handle this when she sais she is fat or any other coment when she is fishing for complments? thanks..
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
what to say when she is looking for complments
- Thread starter Shocker
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
If she is beautiful, agree with her on her flaw, and exaggerate it in a playful manner. I have a friend who is a model from Singapore who whines about her weight even though she is perfectly trim. When she does this I call her a giant whale and say I'm surprised she can fit through the doorway. She loves it.
If she is the insecure type, don't say anything, and never rush to her defense.
If she is the insecure type, don't say anything, and never rush to her defense.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
LOL, this remind me of this episode of Dr Phil (yes, I watch it).
This couple are lying in bed together, gazing into each others eyes. The wife is expecting him to come out & say something spectacular...
" God you're ugly "
:crackup:
This couple are lying in bed together, gazing into each others eyes. The wife is expecting him to come out & say something spectacular...
" God you're ugly "
:crackup:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Actually I think the way you handled it was the best way. I hate when girls say this sh*t & I ignore it. I fidn that if you try to find answer to it you find yourself stumped as to what to say.Shocker said:I was with a girl today and she mentioned something about being fat, your typical qualify comment. I didnt do the usual AFC 'your not fat!' like I would have, just more went on about what we were talking about and pretended not to hear it. What would be a good way to handle this when she sais she is fat or any other coment when she is fishing for complments? thanks..
insanity
Master Don Juan
i remember going to the beach with a few girls and there was this one girl in a bikini and she looked amazing. whats the first thing she said? do i look fat in this.
i told her yes, now go swim with the rest of the whales. she just called me a prick. i told her to not be so stupid, i said it looks like a new suit, you were just fishing for comments. like what else did she want me to do, get on my knees and drool.
i told her yes, now go swim with the rest of the whales. she just called me a prick. i told her to not be so stupid, i said it looks like a new suit, you were just fishing for comments. like what else did she want me to do, get on my knees and drool.
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
Just smile and say "No, don't worry!"
But if a girl really is fat, and would know if you were lying about it, you use a sober tone and say "It's not everything, and seriously, you don't have anything to worry about when it comes to charisma."
The word charisma is an excellent compliment to use when a girl doesn't look good, but is still nice and intelligent.
But if a girl really is fat, and would know if you were lying about it, you use a sober tone and say "It's not everything, and seriously, you don't have anything to worry about when it comes to charisma."
The word charisma is an excellent compliment to use when a girl doesn't look good, but is still nice and intelligent.