I was with a girl today and she mentioned something about being fat, your typical qualify comment. I didnt do the usual AFC 'your not fat!' like I would have, just more went on about what we were talking about and pretended not to hear it. What would be a good way to handle this when she sais she is fat or any other coment when she is fishing for complments? thanks..
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
what to say when she is looking for complments
- Thread starter Shocker
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
If she is beautiful, agree with her on her flaw, and exaggerate it in a playful manner. I have a friend who is a model from Singapore who whines about her weight even though she is perfectly trim. When she does this I call her a giant whale and say I'm surprised she can fit through the doorway. She loves it.
If she is the insecure type, don't say anything, and never rush to her defense.
If she is the insecure type, don't say anything, and never rush to her defense.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
LOL, this remind me of this episode of Dr Phil (yes, I watch it).
This couple are lying in bed together, gazing into each others eyes. The wife is expecting him to come out & say something spectacular...
" God you're ugly "
:crackup:
This couple are lying in bed together, gazing into each others eyes. The wife is expecting him to come out & say something spectacular...
" God you're ugly "
:crackup:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Actually I think the way you handled it was the best way. I hate when girls say this sh*t & I ignore it. I fidn that if you try to find answer to it you find yourself stumped as to what to say.Shocker said:I was with a girl today and she mentioned something about being fat, your typical qualify comment. I didnt do the usual AFC 'your not fat!' like I would have, just more went on about what we were talking about and pretended not to hear it. What would be a good way to handle this when she sais she is fat or any other coment when she is fishing for complments? thanks..
insanity
Master Don Juan
i remember going to the beach with a few girls and there was this one girl in a bikini and she looked amazing. whats the first thing she said? do i look fat in this.
i told her yes, now go swim with the rest of the whales. she just called me a prick. i told her to not be so stupid, i said it looks like a new suit, you were just fishing for comments. like what else did she want me to do, get on my knees and drool.
i told her yes, now go swim with the rest of the whales. she just called me a prick. i told her to not be so stupid, i said it looks like a new suit, you were just fishing for comments. like what else did she want me to do, get on my knees and drool.
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
Just smile and say "No, don't worry!"
But if a girl really is fat, and would know if you were lying about it, you use a sober tone and say "It's not everything, and seriously, you don't have anything to worry about when it comes to charisma."
The word charisma is an excellent compliment to use when a girl doesn't look good, but is still nice and intelligent.
But if a girl really is fat, and would know if you were lying about it, you use a sober tone and say "It's not everything, and seriously, you don't have anything to worry about when it comes to charisma."
The word charisma is an excellent compliment to use when a girl doesn't look good, but is still nice and intelligent.