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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to say when a chic asks for a cigarette?

timmylivingalie

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Last nite a chic came up to my friend and asks for a cigarette. He handed her one and of course she left. Should he have handled it like a girl asking to buy her a drink?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Very interesting question.

I usually just say no. But if she's hot, it's the perfect excuse to try and engage her.
If I can see a guy near her, I'll say: "Nah, why don't you get one off your boyfriend."
But usually, if she's attractive, it's a great ice breaker.
If she bails straight away, she's wiped. Cigarettes in Australia are as dear as fvck ($22 for a 30-pack), but if it only costs me one cigarette to weed out another ho, then that's cool. She just gets the cold shoulder if she approaches me again.
I'll also offer her my unsmoked butt or offer her a drag of my already lit cigarette but rarely a whole cigarette.

Still, if you take a girl outside for a smoke, it's a good way to separate her from the herd and work your magic on her.
 

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Lol, how times have changed! Cigarettes used to be so cheap it was nothing to bum one to a stranger. Now it's a major financial life decision to smoke. To the point where giving out a cigarette is compared to buying a girl a drink. What a hoot.

I'm glad I quit smoking before they got so expensive.
 

timmylivingalie

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Greasy Pig said:
Very interesting question.

I usually just say no. But if she's hot, it's the perfect excuse to try and engage her.
If I can see a guy near her, I'll say: "Nah, why don't you get one off your boyfriend."
But usually, if she's attractive, it's a great ice breaker.
If she bails straight away, she's wiped. Cigarettes in Australia are as dear as fvck ($22 for a 30-pack), but if it only costs me one cigarette to weed out another ho, then that's cool. She just gets the cold shoulder if she approaches me again.
I'll also offer her my unsmoked butt or offer her a drag of my already lit cigarette but rarely a whole cigarette.

Still, if you take a girl outside for a smoke, it's a good way to separate her from the herd and work your magic on her.
Thats a good idea about getting her outside instead of giving to her right then you could get her to follow you out before you gave her a cigarette.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Personally I wouldn't think much of it. If she wanted one and I had one spare then I'd just give it to her.

If the girl's interested in talking then she'll usually hang around and make it obvious.
 

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zekko said:
Lol, how times have changed! Cigarettes used to be so cheap it was nothing to bum one to a stranger. Now it's a major financial life decision to smoke. To the point where giving out a cigarette is compared to buying a girl a drink. What a hoot.

I'm glad I quit smoking before they got so expensive.

No kidding... One time a dude asked me for a cig.. i joked around and said, "It'll cost ya"

and he proceeded to dig out $0.25 from his pockets.

Had to tell him twice I was just joking.



Also, fvck you if you charge people. I'd rather you say no.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
Last nite a chic came up to my friend and asks for a cigarette. He handed her one and of course she left. Should he have handled it like a girl asking to buy her a drink?
Babe with an oral fixation .... here you go hon!
Worth it just to see the look.

3 bucks per pack in Canada (if you buy it off one of the Indian reservations scattered around).

SH
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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