“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What to say when a chic asks for a cigarette?

timmylivingalie

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Last nite a chic came up to my friend and asks for a cigarette. He handed her one and of course she left. Should he have handled it like a girl asking to buy her a drink?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Very interesting question.

I usually just say no. But if she's hot, it's the perfect excuse to try and engage her.
If I can see a guy near her, I'll say: "Nah, why don't you get one off your boyfriend."
But usually, if she's attractive, it's a great ice breaker.
If she bails straight away, she's wiped. Cigarettes in Australia are as dear as fvck ($22 for a 30-pack), but if it only costs me one cigarette to weed out another ho, then that's cool. She just gets the cold shoulder if she approaches me again.
I'll also offer her my unsmoked butt or offer her a drag of my already lit cigarette but rarely a whole cigarette.

Still, if you take a girl outside for a smoke, it's a good way to separate her from the herd and work your magic on her.
 

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Lol, how times have changed! Cigarettes used to be so cheap it was nothing to bum one to a stranger. Now it's a major financial life decision to smoke. To the point where giving out a cigarette is compared to buying a girl a drink. What a hoot.

I'm glad I quit smoking before they got so expensive.
 

timmylivingalie

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Greasy Pig said:
Very interesting question.

I usually just say no. But if she's hot, it's the perfect excuse to try and engage her.
If I can see a guy near her, I'll say: "Nah, why don't you get one off your boyfriend."
But usually, if she's attractive, it's a great ice breaker.
If she bails straight away, she's wiped. Cigarettes in Australia are as dear as fvck ($22 for a 30-pack), but if it only costs me one cigarette to weed out another ho, then that's cool. She just gets the cold shoulder if she approaches me again.
I'll also offer her my unsmoked butt or offer her a drag of my already lit cigarette but rarely a whole cigarette.

Still, if you take a girl outside for a smoke, it's a good way to separate her from the herd and work your magic on her.
Thats a good idea about getting her outside instead of giving to her right then you could get her to follow you out before you gave her a cigarette.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Personally I wouldn't think much of it. If she wanted one and I had one spare then I'd just give it to her.

If the girl's interested in talking then she'll usually hang around and make it obvious.
 

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zekko said:
Lol, how times have changed! Cigarettes used to be so cheap it was nothing to bum one to a stranger. Now it's a major financial life decision to smoke. To the point where giving out a cigarette is compared to buying a girl a drink. What a hoot.

I'm glad I quit smoking before they got so expensive.

No kidding... One time a dude asked me for a cig.. i joked around and said, "It'll cost ya"

and he proceeded to dig out $0.25 from his pockets.

Had to tell him twice I was just joking.



Also, fvck you if you charge people. I'd rather you say no.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
Last nite a chic came up to my friend and asks for a cigarette. He handed her one and of course she left. Should he have handled it like a girl asking to buy her a drink?
Babe with an oral fixation .... here you go hon!
Worth it just to see the look.

3 bucks per pack in Canada (if you buy it off one of the Indian reservations scattered around).

SH
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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