FreakoSuave
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I messaged a girl and she responded within a minute saying "Lol ummmm do i know you?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What to say to a message if a chick says ummm do I know you?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jumpking94
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Ummmm do you know her?
FreakoSuave
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Nope it was just a random girl I requested on fb and she accepted the request
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
The truth, that you thought she looked nice or something. If you're opening on FB you'll have to go through a lot to get some sh!t that sticks.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"Sorry, I either have the wrong person, or you're acting like a little child and playing pathetic games. "FreakoSuave said:
Don't be afraid to pull her up on it. Make sure you're as blunt and as straight to the point as possible.
More background info would of been nice....
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1. add random girl on facebook
2. ask "we meet last weekend at this party/bar/club, right?"
3. when they say no, say something witty concerning the "screw up"
4. ask them if they want to actually meet up at a party/bar/club next weekend
5. bang them
Success rate depending on looks and is situational. Basically just a longer version of tinder.
In your situation, just start from step 2.
2. ask "we meet last weekend at this party/bar/club, right?"
3. when they say no, say something witty concerning the "screw up"
4. ask them if they want to actually meet up at a party/bar/club next weekend
5. bang them
Success rate depending on looks and is situational. Basically just a longer version of tinder.
In your situation, just start from step 2.