FreakoSuave
New Member
I messaged a girl and she responded within a minute saying "Lol ummmm do i know you?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What to say to a message if a chick says ummm do I know you?
- Thread starter FreakoSuave
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Jumpking94
New Member
Ummmm do you know her?
FreakoSuave
New Member
Nope it was just a random girl I requested on fb and she accepted the request
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
The truth, that you thought she looked nice or something. If you're opening on FB you'll have to go through a lot to get some sh!t that sticks.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"Sorry, I either have the wrong person, or you're acting like a little child and playing pathetic games. "FreakoSuave said:
Don't be afraid to pull her up on it. Make sure you're as blunt and as straight to the point as possible.
More background info would of been nice....
denverfan110
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1. add random girl on facebook
2. ask "we meet last weekend at this party/bar/club, right?"
3. when they say no, say something witty concerning the "screw up"
4. ask them if they want to actually meet up at a party/bar/club next weekend
5. bang them
Success rate depending on looks and is situational. Basically just a longer version of tinder.
In your situation, just start from step 2.
2. ask "we meet last weekend at this party/bar/club, right?"
3. when they say no, say something witty concerning the "screw up"
4. ask them if they want to actually meet up at a party/bar/club next weekend
5. bang them
Success rate depending on looks and is situational. Basically just a longer version of tinder.
In your situation, just start from step 2.