FreakoSuave
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I messaged a girl and she responded within a minute saying "Lol ummmm do i know you?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What to say to a message if a chick says ummm do I know you?
- Thread starter FreakoSuave
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Jumpking94
New Member
Ummmm do you know her?
FreakoSuave
New Member
Nope it was just a random girl I requested on fb and she accepted the request
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
The truth, that you thought she looked nice or something. If you're opening on FB you'll have to go through a lot to get some sh!t that sticks.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"Sorry, I either have the wrong person, or you're acting like a little child and playing pathetic games. "FreakoSuave said:
Don't be afraid to pull her up on it. Make sure you're as blunt and as straight to the point as possible.
More background info would of been nice....
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1. add random girl on facebook
2. ask "we meet last weekend at this party/bar/club, right?"
3. when they say no, say something witty concerning the "screw up"
4. ask them if they want to actually meet up at a party/bar/club next weekend
5. bang them
Success rate depending on looks and is situational. Basically just a longer version of tinder.
In your situation, just start from step 2.
2. ask "we meet last weekend at this party/bar/club, right?"
3. when they say no, say something witty concerning the "screw up"
4. ask them if they want to actually meet up at a party/bar/club next weekend
5. bang them
Success rate depending on looks and is situational. Basically just a longer version of tinder.
In your situation, just start from step 2.