FreakoSuave
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I messaged a girl and she responded within a minute saying "Lol ummmm do i know you?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What to say to a message if a chick says ummm do I know you?
- Thread starter FreakoSuave
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Jumpking94
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Ummmm do you know her?
FreakoSuave
New Member
Nope it was just a random girl I requested on fb and she accepted the request
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
The truth, that you thought she looked nice or something. If you're opening on FB you'll have to go through a lot to get some sh!t that sticks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"Sorry, I either have the wrong person, or you're acting like a little child and playing pathetic games. "FreakoSuave said:
Don't be afraid to pull her up on it. Make sure you're as blunt and as straight to the point as possible.
More background info would of been nice....
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1. add random girl on facebook
2. ask "we meet last weekend at this party/bar/club, right?"
3. when they say no, say something witty concerning the "screw up"
4. ask them if they want to actually meet up at a party/bar/club next weekend
5. bang them
Success rate depending on looks and is situational. Basically just a longer version of tinder.
In your situation, just start from step 2.
2. ask "we meet last weekend at this party/bar/club, right?"
3. when they say no, say something witty concerning the "screw up"
4. ask them if they want to actually meet up at a party/bar/club next weekend
5. bang them
Success rate depending on looks and is situational. Basically just a longer version of tinder.
In your situation, just start from step 2.