"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pete101

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Robert Jones said:
What is this indirect method you used to get her phone number?
I hope it wasnt a case where she either gave it to a entire class or some other method where in no way was her phone number given so that you could call and try to get her.

basically i got it indirectly without actually asking her in a im interested in you kinda way. its cos i needed to know something from her.. i cant exactly ask for it again can i..?

all chicks i meet have bf's/married/engaged etc etc.. if not her then its another one with a bf. think of it from that perspective pls and post a suggestion.
 

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^^ well if all the chicks u meet are taken. i suggest you either look in different places (come on man, most chicks are single. all girls i meet are single)

or if worse comes to worse you can jus kill the guy and then take the widow.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
^^ well if all the chicks u meet are taken. i suggest you either look in different places (come on man, most chicks are single. all girls i meet are single)

or if worse comes to worse you can jus kill the guy and then take the widow.
hmm.. seems most chicks i meet are taken. especially since they are all HBs. suggestions on how i get this one though rather than stating the obvious please.. 'look elsewhere'. seems somewhat defeatest to me.
 

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hmm.. seems most chicks i meet are taken. especially since they are all HBs. suggestions on how i get this one though rather than stating the obvious please.. 'look elsewhere'. seems somewhat defeatest to me.
it's not defeatist. it's common since and respect.
if a girl is really digging her guy then you have very little chance of bagging her.

plus, im usually one who practices respect for other men, so we might not have the same views.

i know i would be pissed if some douche came around trying to steal my girl from me,then i would come here crying about how she cheated on me. I dont want that to happen, so i wouldnt do the same to him.

I would just look for a girl who's probably even better than his and is a whole lot less trouble to get.
 

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ok change of scenario then now. she told me shes leaving her bf and moving out. and its pretty much done.

shes soon to be single so i guess this puts me in a better position now. but because i've probably been LJBF already now what can i do/say act like to create attraction if i might already be in this friends zone?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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