"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what to say to a hot chick with a boyfriend?

pete101

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Robert Jones said:
What is this indirect method you used to get her phone number?
I hope it wasnt a case where she either gave it to a entire class or some other method where in no way was her phone number given so that you could call and try to get her.

basically i got it indirectly without actually asking her in a im interested in you kinda way. its cos i needed to know something from her.. i cant exactly ask for it again can i..?

all chicks i meet have bf's/married/engaged etc etc.. if not her then its another one with a bf. think of it from that perspective pls and post a suggestion.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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^^ well if all the chicks u meet are taken. i suggest you either look in different places (come on man, most chicks are single. all girls i meet are single)

or if worse comes to worse you can jus kill the guy and then take the widow.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
^^ well if all the chicks u meet are taken. i suggest you either look in different places (come on man, most chicks are single. all girls i meet are single)

or if worse comes to worse you can jus kill the guy and then take the widow.
hmm.. seems most chicks i meet are taken. especially since they are all HBs. suggestions on how i get this one though rather than stating the obvious please.. 'look elsewhere'. seems somewhat defeatest to me.
 

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hmm.. seems most chicks i meet are taken. especially since they are all HBs. suggestions on how i get this one though rather than stating the obvious please.. 'look elsewhere'. seems somewhat defeatest to me.
it's not defeatist. it's common since and respect.
if a girl is really digging her guy then you have very little chance of bagging her.

plus, im usually one who practices respect for other men, so we might not have the same views.

i know i would be pissed if some douche came around trying to steal my girl from me,then i would come here crying about how she cheated on me. I dont want that to happen, so i wouldnt do the same to him.

I would just look for a girl who's probably even better than his and is a whole lot less trouble to get.
 

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ok change of scenario then now. she told me shes leaving her bf and moving out. and its pretty much done.

shes soon to be single so i guess this puts me in a better position now. but because i've probably been LJBF already now what can i do/say act like to create attraction if i might already be in this friends zone?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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