"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what to say to a hot chick with a boyfriend?

pete101

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Robert Jones said:
What is this indirect method you used to get her phone number?
I hope it wasnt a case where she either gave it to a entire class or some other method where in no way was her phone number given so that you could call and try to get her.

basically i got it indirectly without actually asking her in a im interested in you kinda way. its cos i needed to know something from her.. i cant exactly ask for it again can i..?

all chicks i meet have bf's/married/engaged etc etc.. if not her then its another one with a bf. think of it from that perspective pls and post a suggestion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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^^ well if all the chicks u meet are taken. i suggest you either look in different places (come on man, most chicks are single. all girls i meet are single)

or if worse comes to worse you can jus kill the guy and then take the widow.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
^^ well if all the chicks u meet are taken. i suggest you either look in different places (come on man, most chicks are single. all girls i meet are single)

or if worse comes to worse you can jus kill the guy and then take the widow.
hmm.. seems most chicks i meet are taken. especially since they are all HBs. suggestions on how i get this one though rather than stating the obvious please.. 'look elsewhere'. seems somewhat defeatest to me.
 

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hmm.. seems most chicks i meet are taken. especially since they are all HBs. suggestions on how i get this one though rather than stating the obvious please.. 'look elsewhere'. seems somewhat defeatest to me.
it's not defeatist. it's common since and respect.
if a girl is really digging her guy then you have very little chance of bagging her.

plus, im usually one who practices respect for other men, so we might not have the same views.

i know i would be pissed if some douche came around trying to steal my girl from me,then i would come here crying about how she cheated on me. I dont want that to happen, so i wouldnt do the same to him.

I would just look for a girl who's probably even better than his and is a whole lot less trouble to get.
 

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ok change of scenario then now. she told me shes leaving her bf and moving out. and its pretty much done.

shes soon to be single so i guess this puts me in a better position now. but because i've probably been LJBF already now what can i do/say act like to create attraction if i might already be in this friends zone?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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