Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

what to say to a hot chick with a boyfriend?

pete101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2006
Messages
1,030
Reaction score
8
Robert Jones said:
What is this indirect method you used to get her phone number?
I hope it wasnt a case where she either gave it to a entire class or some other method where in no way was her phone number given so that you could call and try to get her.

basically i got it indirectly without actually asking her in a im interested in you kinda way. its cos i needed to know something from her.. i cant exactly ask for it again can i..?

all chicks i meet have bf's/married/engaged etc etc.. if not her then its another one with a bf. think of it from that perspective pls and post a suggestion.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Raikojo17

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
982
Reaction score
5
^^ well if all the chicks u meet are taken. i suggest you either look in different places (come on man, most chicks are single. all girls i meet are single)

or if worse comes to worse you can jus kill the guy and then take the widow.
 

pete101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2006
Messages
1,030
Reaction score
8
Raikojo17 said:
^^ well if all the chicks u meet are taken. i suggest you either look in different places (come on man, most chicks are single. all girls i meet are single)

or if worse comes to worse you can jus kill the guy and then take the widow.
hmm.. seems most chicks i meet are taken. especially since they are all HBs. suggestions on how i get this one though rather than stating the obvious please.. 'look elsewhere'. seems somewhat defeatest to me.
 

Raikojo17

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
982
Reaction score
5
pete101 said:
hmm.. seems most chicks i meet are taken. especially since they are all HBs. suggestions on how i get this one though rather than stating the obvious please.. 'look elsewhere'. seems somewhat defeatest to me.
it's not defeatist. it's common since and respect.
if a girl is really digging her guy then you have very little chance of bagging her.

plus, im usually one who practices respect for other men, so we might not have the same views.

i know i would be pissed if some douche came around trying to steal my girl from me,then i would come here crying about how she cheated on me. I dont want that to happen, so i wouldnt do the same to him.

I would just look for a girl who's probably even better than his and is a whole lot less trouble to get.
 

pete101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2006
Messages
1,030
Reaction score
8
ok change of scenario then now. she told me shes leaving her bf and moving out. and its pretty much done.

shes soon to be single so i guess this puts me in a better position now. but because i've probably been LJBF already now what can i do/say act like to create attraction if i might already be in this friends zone?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top