"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what to respond if a girl says "i kind of like you"

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took this girl on 1 date couple weeks ago shes been texting me non stop she just texted me "i feel like crap wish you were here cuddling with me" i said "cant blame you ;)" now she just send me the first line "i kind of like you" problem with this girl is shes about a 6 not 1 i want to get involed ina relationship with so whats the best way to tell this girl i dont really like her but we should still hook up.........ive already made out with her on the first day but i want to close
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i just sent her a the text back with the classic hans solo line "i know" gonna try and hook up with her tomorrow night only problem is both of us live with are parents
 

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You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"
 

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I have a golden gem my friends and i came up with.

"Your face kinda sucks"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just say "I know." Getting all mushy and catching feelings is a no-no and will end all attraction faster than Milli Vanilli's career.

Put yourself in the mindset that you got a harem of beautiful women to attend to in case she says no. Don't give her any iota of the fact that she has you. She is attracted to you as long as you don't develop feelings.

Case closed. Go get 'em tiger!
 

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Ambition Now said:
You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"

Sure, if you want her to move on to someone else, that's perfect advice!!!

Yay for keyboard jockeys!!
 
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