Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what to respond if a girl says "i kind of like you"

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took this girl on 1 date couple weeks ago shes been texting me non stop she just texted me "i feel like crap wish you were here cuddling with me" i said "cant blame you ;)" now she just send me the first line "i kind of like you" problem with this girl is shes about a 6 not 1 i want to get involed ina relationship with so whats the best way to tell this girl i dont really like her but we should still hook up.........ive already made out with her on the first day but i want to close
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i just sent her a the text back with the classic hans solo line "i know" gonna try and hook up with her tomorrow night only problem is both of us live with are parents
 

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You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"
 

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I have a golden gem my friends and i came up with.

"Your face kinda sucks"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just say "I know." Getting all mushy and catching feelings is a no-no and will end all attraction faster than Milli Vanilli's career.

Put yourself in the mindset that you got a harem of beautiful women to attend to in case she says no. Don't give her any iota of the fact that she has you. She is attracted to you as long as you don't develop feelings.

Case closed. Go get 'em tiger!
 

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Ambition Now said:
You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"

Sure, if you want her to move on to someone else, that's perfect advice!!!

Yay for keyboard jockeys!!
 
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