"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what to respond if a girl says "i kind of like you"

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took this girl on 1 date couple weeks ago shes been texting me non stop she just texted me "i feel like crap wish you were here cuddling with me" i said "cant blame you ;)" now she just send me the first line "i kind of like you" problem with this girl is shes about a 6 not 1 i want to get involed ina relationship with so whats the best way to tell this girl i dont really like her but we should still hook up.........ive already made out with her on the first day but i want to close
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i just sent her a the text back with the classic hans solo line "i know" gonna try and hook up with her tomorrow night only problem is both of us live with are parents
 

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You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"
 

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I have a golden gem my friends and i came up with.

"Your face kinda sucks"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just say "I know." Getting all mushy and catching feelings is a no-no and will end all attraction faster than Milli Vanilli's career.

Put yourself in the mindset that you got a harem of beautiful women to attend to in case she says no. Don't give her any iota of the fact that she has you. She is attracted to you as long as you don't develop feelings.

Case closed. Go get 'em tiger!
 

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Ambition Now said:
You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"

Sure, if you want her to move on to someone else, that's perfect advice!!!

Yay for keyboard jockeys!!
 
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