"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what to respond if a girl says "i kind of like you"

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took this girl on 1 date couple weeks ago shes been texting me non stop she just texted me "i feel like crap wish you were here cuddling with me" i said "cant blame you ;)" now she just send me the first line "i kind of like you" problem with this girl is shes about a 6 not 1 i want to get involed ina relationship with so whats the best way to tell this girl i dont really like her but we should still hook up.........ive already made out with her on the first day but i want to close
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i just sent her a the text back with the classic hans solo line "i know" gonna try and hook up with her tomorrow night only problem is both of us live with are parents
 
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You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"
 
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I have a golden gem my friends and i came up with.

"Your face kinda sucks"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just say "I know." Getting all mushy and catching feelings is a no-no and will end all attraction faster than Milli Vanilli's career.

Put yourself in the mindset that you got a harem of beautiful women to attend to in case she says no. Don't give her any iota of the fact that she has you. She is attracted to you as long as you don't develop feelings.

Case closed. Go get 'em tiger!
 
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Ambition Now said:
You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"
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Sure, if you want her to move on to someone else, that's perfect advice!!!

Yay for keyboard jockeys!!
 
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