"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what to respond if a girl says "i kind of like you"

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took this girl on 1 date couple weeks ago shes been texting me non stop she just texted me "i feel like crap wish you were here cuddling with me" i said "cant blame you ;)" now she just send me the first line "i kind of like you" problem with this girl is shes about a 6 not 1 i want to get involed ina relationship with so whats the best way to tell this girl i dont really like her but we should still hook up.........ive already made out with her on the first day but i want to close
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i just sent her a the text back with the classic hans solo line "i know" gonna try and hook up with her tomorrow night only problem is both of us live with are parents
 
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You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"
 
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I have a golden gem my friends and i came up with.

"Your face kinda sucks"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just say "I know." Getting all mushy and catching feelings is a no-no and will end all attraction faster than Milli Vanilli's career.

Put yourself in the mindset that you got a harem of beautiful women to attend to in case she says no. Don't give her any iota of the fact that she has you. She is attracted to you as long as you don't develop feelings.

Case closed. Go get 'em tiger!
 
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Ambition Now said:
You could have answered something like: "Dont worry about that, its ok..."
The key is to be vague and never answer what she wants to hear, wich is "i like you too"
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Sure, if you want her to move on to someone else, that's perfect advice!!!

Yay for keyboard jockeys!!
 
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