Pimpology101
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I have been dating this girl for awhile and things have kind of bogged down neither of us can think of anything really fun to go do. Have any ideas for a good time?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What to do....
- Thread starter Pimpology101
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You each should find a new mate.
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
depends how old yous two are...
underage
- bowling, rock-climbing, theme-parks, beach, pools, movies, drive-in movies (even!), underage dances, strolls on the beach, parks, arcades, coffee houses, some place with a pool table... i guess places what you call action dates, places where you can compete against her.. always fun =)
overage
- bars, pubs, clubs (on top of all the others things)
those are just some... there's plenty more... there's always the come over to watch a video or something
underage
- bowling, rock-climbing, theme-parks, beach, pools, movies, drive-in movies (even!), underage dances, strolls on the beach, parks, arcades, coffee houses, some place with a pool table... i guess places what you call action dates, places where you can compete against her.. always fun =)
overage
- bars, pubs, clubs (on top of all the others things)
those are just some... there's plenty more... there's always the come over to watch a video or something
squirrels
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Is it that you can't think of anything fun to do, or that it's just no fun being around HER any more?Originally posted by Pimpology101
I have been dating this girl for awhile and things have kind of bogged down neither of us can think of anything really fun to go do. Have any ideas for a good time?
I totally agree with PuertoRican_Lover.. if you don´t have fun with her, it´s not because of the places you go to with her but it´s because of how you match each other.
Sometimes I have realized that I´ve been dating a girl only because she looks good.. and tried to create an illusion to myself that the girl and I have something else in common aswell. I mean.. I can only be a good company for the girl, if the girl is good company for me. If´s she´s got no sense of humour or is just simply stupid, I really can not have fun with her even if she was a super model or something. You know, the place you go to with her or the things you do with her will not affect the fact how you match each other.
But if you really feel that the two of you are good together, listen to the tips of Nightspark.
-Tango-Kid-
Sometimes I have realized that I´ve been dating a girl only because she looks good.. and tried to create an illusion to myself that the girl and I have something else in common aswell. I mean.. I can only be a good company for the girl, if the girl is good company for me. If´s she´s got no sense of humour or is just simply stupid, I really can not have fun with her even if she was a super model or something. You know, the place you go to with her or the things you do with her will not affect the fact how you match each other.
But if you really feel that the two of you are good together, listen to the tips of Nightspark.
-Tango-Kid-
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
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jbbrain
Master Don Juan
i actually agree with puerto rican
youre blind as to the real reason both of you "arent feeling it" anymore.
Anyone can think of many places to go or things to do to have fun. But these things are only helpful if you actually enjoy the persons company in the 1st place..from what it sounds like..
I'd move my ass on and fukk some other girls. Don't worry about it.. Incompatibility is super common..sometimes it just not meant to be, dig?
youre blind as to the real reason both of you "arent feeling it" anymore.
Anyone can think of many places to go or things to do to have fun. But these things are only helpful if you actually enjoy the persons company in the 1st place..from what it sounds like..
I'd move my ass on and fukk some other girls. Don't worry about it.. Incompatibility is super common..sometimes it just not meant to be, dig?