Pimpology101
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I have been dating this girl for awhile and things have kind of bogged down neither of us can think of anything really fun to go do. Have any ideas for a good time?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What to do....
- Thread starter Pimpology101
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You each should find a new mate.
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
depends how old yous two are...
underage
- bowling, rock-climbing, theme-parks, beach, pools, movies, drive-in movies (even!), underage dances, strolls on the beach, parks, arcades, coffee houses, some place with a pool table... i guess places what you call action dates, places where you can compete against her.. always fun =)
overage
- bars, pubs, clubs (on top of all the others things)
those are just some... there's plenty more... there's always the come over to watch a video or something
underage
- bowling, rock-climbing, theme-parks, beach, pools, movies, drive-in movies (even!), underage dances, strolls on the beach, parks, arcades, coffee houses, some place with a pool table... i guess places what you call action dates, places where you can compete against her.. always fun =)
overage
- bars, pubs, clubs (on top of all the others things)
those are just some... there's plenty more... there's always the come over to watch a video or something
squirrels
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Is it that you can't think of anything fun to do, or that it's just no fun being around HER any more?Originally posted by Pimpology101
I have been dating this girl for awhile and things have kind of bogged down neither of us can think of anything really fun to go do. Have any ideas for a good time?
I totally agree with PuertoRican_Lover.. if you don´t have fun with her, it´s not because of the places you go to with her but it´s because of how you match each other.
Sometimes I have realized that I´ve been dating a girl only because she looks good.. and tried to create an illusion to myself that the girl and I have something else in common aswell. I mean.. I can only be a good company for the girl, if the girl is good company for me. If´s she´s got no sense of humour or is just simply stupid, I really can not have fun with her even if she was a super model or something. You know, the place you go to with her or the things you do with her will not affect the fact how you match each other.
But if you really feel that the two of you are good together, listen to the tips of Nightspark.
-Tango-Kid-
Sometimes I have realized that I´ve been dating a girl only because she looks good.. and tried to create an illusion to myself that the girl and I have something else in common aswell. I mean.. I can only be a good company for the girl, if the girl is good company for me. If´s she´s got no sense of humour or is just simply stupid, I really can not have fun with her even if she was a super model or something. You know, the place you go to with her or the things you do with her will not affect the fact how you match each other.
But if you really feel that the two of you are good together, listen to the tips of Nightspark.
-Tango-Kid-
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
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jbbrain
Master Don Juan
i actually agree with puerto rican
youre blind as to the real reason both of you "arent feeling it" anymore.
Anyone can think of many places to go or things to do to have fun. But these things are only helpful if you actually enjoy the persons company in the 1st place..from what it sounds like..
I'd move my ass on and fukk some other girls. Don't worry about it.. Incompatibility is super common..sometimes it just not meant to be, dig?
youre blind as to the real reason both of you "arent feeling it" anymore.
Anyone can think of many places to go or things to do to have fun. But these things are only helpful if you actually enjoy the persons company in the 1st place..from what it sounds like..
I'd move my ass on and fukk some other girls. Don't worry about it.. Incompatibility is super common..sometimes it just not meant to be, dig?