"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to do with my life?

Crazy Asian

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go use ur sharingan and copy michael phelps' swimming technique
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Constructively, see a doctor about the depression. One very critical thing that you must do is embark on a healthy sleeping regime: 12 - 8; 2 - 10 it doesn't matter, as long as it's regular. That will help you build up your serotonin levels again, along with any medication that you might be taking (probably SSRIs).

Next, read the book of pook and the DJ bible, and do the DJ boot camp like I'm doing.

4 months ago I was exactly where you were. Now I'm getting out there and talking to attractive ladies :D
 

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To be honest, I don't think it is that hard if you are healthy.

Find what you love, and do it. Whether that be as a job, or as a hobby after work and/or on weekends.

Hardest part for most is finding what you love.
 
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