"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do with my life?

Crazy Asian

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go use ur sharingan and copy michael phelps' swimming technique
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Constructively, see a doctor about the depression. One very critical thing that you must do is embark on a healthy sleeping regime: 12 - 8; 2 - 10 it doesn't matter, as long as it's regular. That will help you build up your serotonin levels again, along with any medication that you might be taking (probably SSRIs).

Next, read the book of pook and the DJ bible, and do the DJ boot camp like I'm doing.

4 months ago I was exactly where you were. Now I'm getting out there and talking to attractive ladies :D
 

Gaucho

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To be honest, I don't think it is that hard if you are healthy.

Find what you love, and do it. Whether that be as a job, or as a hobby after work and/or on weekends.

Hardest part for most is finding what you love.
 
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