"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to do with my life?

Crazy Asian

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go use ur sharingan and copy michael phelps' swimming technique
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Constructively, see a doctor about the depression. One very critical thing that you must do is embark on a healthy sleeping regime: 12 - 8; 2 - 10 it doesn't matter, as long as it's regular. That will help you build up your serotonin levels again, along with any medication that you might be taking (probably SSRIs).

Next, read the book of pook and the DJ bible, and do the DJ boot camp like I'm doing.

4 months ago I was exactly where you were. Now I'm getting out there and talking to attractive ladies :D
 

Gaucho

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To be honest, I don't think it is that hard if you are healthy.

Find what you love, and do it. Whether that be as a job, or as a hobby after work and/or on weekends.

Hardest part for most is finding what you love.
 
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