"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to do with my life?

Crazy Asian

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go use ur sharingan and copy michael phelps' swimming technique
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asteconn

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Constructively, see a doctor about the depression. One very critical thing that you must do is embark on a healthy sleeping regime: 12 - 8; 2 - 10 it doesn't matter, as long as it's regular. That will help you build up your serotonin levels again, along with any medication that you might be taking (probably SSRIs).

Next, read the book of pook and the DJ bible, and do the DJ boot camp like I'm doing.

4 months ago I was exactly where you were. Now I'm getting out there and talking to attractive ladies :D
 

Gaucho

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To be honest, I don't think it is that hard if you are healthy.

Find what you love, and do it. Whether that be as a job, or as a hobby after work and/or on weekends.

Hardest part for most is finding what you love.
 
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