Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What to do when she has a boyfriend?

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I’ve met one girl that I would definitely like to hook up with but she has a boyfriend. I’ve been talking to her way too much online and just generally making myself too available which will surely land me in LJBF land very soon if I don’t change what I’m doing. How should I treat her? Should I just pretend she doesn’t exist until she’s single or try something else?

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AB500

P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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combine words in the search, I'm sure that the word 'the' appears more then enough in threads, so 'b/f the' might kick something.
 
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Originally posted by AB500
P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
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Dont be so lazy, goddamn. Move on with your life. Hook up with her friends and other girls.
 
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There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.
 
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Originally posted by Bling
There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.
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I'm sure there is and I never said I'm not going to continue going after other girls, I was just curious as to how I would best go after this one because she is pretty unique in the sea of pop-loving posers out there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man how would you like some little ***** like you going after your girlfriend? Come onn thinkkk u wouldnt like it would you.Exactly.

The only way your going to get her if ur drop dead the one of the hottest guys.. Other then that forget it.
 
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you guys are totally misleading him and destroying his confidence goddamn....give the kid a break... if shes got a boyfriend just treat her the same as any other girl... dont make yourself available and stuff of that nature.... and hust continue on treatin her like every other ho... sooner or later itll be over and youll have your chance... patience is a necessary skill
 
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I have the same situation...Ive just been trying to do my thing yunno. I think its working. Just treat as if you dont like her. Thats what Im doing.
 
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